A Parenting Journey of Freedom, Exploration, and Passion
As a parent, my greatest aspiration isn’t to mould my daughter into a version of myself, but rather to offer her the space and support she needs to discover who she truly is. In a world that often rushes to define children by rigid expectations and pre-set standards, I’ve chosen a different route — one rooted in trust, exploration, and freedom.
From a young age, my daughter (Kreesha) has been encouraged to explore a wide array of activities alongside her academic pursuits. I believe that learning doesn’t end at the classroom door — it continues through every brush stroke, every dance step, every punch and kick mastered in martial arts. Whether it’s sketching whimsical characters, practicing classical dance with poise and grace, or blending colours to bring her imagination to life on canvas, each activity she takes on is a thread in the rich tapestry of her childhood.
Kreesha is not just a learner — but a creator. One of the most exciting chapters in her journey so far has been the launch of her very own small candle business. Watching her design and hand-pour each candle with care and creativity has been a source of endless pride. Her brand isn’t just a business; it’s a reflection of her personality, her love for art, and her entrepreneurial spirit. It brings me immense joy to see her take ownership of something so unique at such a young age.
But more than any individual skill or achievement, what I truly hope to nurture is her spirit — the curiosity to try, the courage to fail, and the resilience to grow. I want her to experience everything that sparks her interest. Whether she sticks with it for a week or a decade, each experience adds to her understanding of herself and the world around her.
There is no single “right” path. My goal isn’t to steer her in a certain direction, but to walk beside her as she carves her own. I want her to know that it’s okay to change her mind, to pursue new passions, to evolve. Because the most fulfilling path is the one you choose for yourself — not the one chosen for you.
Parenting, to me, isn’t about control. It’s about guidance. It’s about creating a safe space where Kreesha feels empowered to explore, dream, and build a life that feels true to her heart. And every day, as I watch her light up with each new discovery, I’m reminded that the most beautiful thing a parent can do is simply let their child bloom.
